asked: Here’s a little background info…
Me and my husband have been together for 6 years now. We have been married for 1year and just found out we are expecting our first child. We have a beautiful life together at this point. He is wonderful. Very attentive and caring and always by my side. He is always doing things to show me how much he loves me and is working hard to get us out of debt and provide a house for me and the baby. Things are great but…
I have one thing I can’t seem to get over. I knew that he was cheating on me for several months in the end of the first year that we were dating. I knew about it and I never confronted him. I was very young when we got together and I wanted to be with him. I was pretty much alone and was afraid of what would have happened had I confronted him. Had this happened to me more recently I would have left him in a heartbeat. Now he is a completely changed person from who he was back then and I want to feel like it is water under the bridge but I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to be confident in our relationship or just get past the hurt til I tell him what I know. I don’t know why I was able to get over it then, but as time goes on I get angrier about it.
Do I confront him after so long?????
thanks to those of you who are answering sincerely. I have not mentioned this incident to anyone at all, but this has helped me gain some clarity.